Comments on: Is a Female-Led Relationship (FLR) Right for You?

By: Donald A Droesch

Donald A Droesch — Tue, 12 May 2026 14:15:30 +0000

Being in & accepting our FLR was the only way we could be together. She has lovers & I have to accept that. I give her my pay & submit to whatever she says.
It’s my life as her owned slave. I would not change a thing!

By: Carlos

Carlos — Mon, 30 Oct 2023 15:56:24 +0000

Hi I am Lucas, white man with a beautiful black wife. Recently married, she is very dominant and she is the decision maker on our relationship. I have been struggling with the fact that she has opened to me that she wants date other men but keep me as her husband. This is a hard limit for me as i do not see myself as cuck. I asked her if she would like to see me with other women and she said absolutely not. We’ve been speaking but with no real progress on it. I try hard to not say no to her, but on this instance it’s been uneasy. Thanks for any comments.

By: james

james — Mon, 19 Dec 2022 16:27:58 +0000

Often flr occurs naturally because the woman is able to dominate her male partner. Neither may realize that the man is submissive because it is a natural relationship with no planning or even discussion. Cuckolding may happen for a variety of reasons but one aspect is demonstrating who is in charge. Becoming a willing accepting cuckold is proving that the man is willing to submit. When the woman makes her man watch her have sex with others and even has him clean and suck cock it is even more dominant. People will give all sorts of reasons such as it is kinky or that it turns the man on but often those are just excuses for the real reason. The other men are also cuckolds in a way since they share a woman sexually without any other benefit.

By: Tom Taber

Tom Taber — Fri, 19 Aug 2022 21:19:55 +0000

In reply to Zhana Wells. Are you looking for a submissive male?

By: Modest Mike

Modest Mike — Thu, 04 Mar 2021 16:25:55 +0000

How does a man respectfully tell a woman who suggests a Female Led Relationship that it is a huge deal breaker for him without hurting her feelings. I don’t want to destroy her confidence but I can not be in a relationship where I am submissive. Also I don’t buy into the “Hero Instinct” that is sometimes thrown around. In bed I do want at least an equal say in what goes on. No chastity devices for me!!!!! No kinks either.

By: Donna Turner

Donna Turner — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 09:04:45 +0000

In reply to J&S. No, thank you!

By: J&S

J&S — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 08:18:10 +0000

In reply to J&S. Thank you for actually considering my suggestion and for sharing it with the readers! You guys are awesome!

By: Donna Turner

Donna Turner — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 07:41:31 +0000

In reply to J&S. Thanks for sharing your experience! It makes us extra excited because this topic was originally submitted to us by one of our readers.

By: J&S

J&S — Wed, 24 Feb 2021 18:55:20 +0000

Thank you so much for choosing to run this story. We have found that FLR has done amazing things for our marriage and really introduced a dynamic and support structure that was missing before. While we are not quite at the year mark, this change has taken a relationship where both of us were questioning the future, to one where neither of us doubt that there is a long and happy future ahead. I am so glad that you are sharing this with the rest of the world because while we realize that it is not right for everyone, there are those out there that if both partners really do want do make a change in the interest of a long and healthy marriage, this might be the missing piece. We had no clue FLR existed a year ago, but it was honestly the missing key to our relationship and so glad we found it.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 23 Jan 2021 01:22:51 +0000

In reply to Zhana Wells. I love that this is the choice for you! Hopefully you could consider someone like me!