Comments on: What Is the Importance of Trust In BDSM? https://lelosexy.com/blog/importance-trust-bdsm/ A Sexual Pleasure Blog by LELO Sat, 07 Mar 2026 05:13:42 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Dan https://lelosexy.com/blog/importance-trust-bdsm/#comment-282027 Thu, 19 May 2022 19:06:06 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=9621#comment-282027 OUCH!!!

Wow. I don’t know your history with this person but that is just NOT okay.

Play is a two way street.. the Dom should be connected to you at every moment of the journey. They are there to give you exactly what you need and desire, taking you on an exilerating journey of emotions and endorphins.

I take it he’s a genuine Sadist right ? Sadism requires a lot of empathy.. so it always concerns me when people are pushed to far into real pain and fear and panic. Sometimes I can’t help but think the top knows this and loves making you kiss a state of suffering. NOT COOL EVER.

BDSM should never hurt the person emotionally.. it can be painful, intense, a cathartic journey or sometimes just light and playful but never should the sub enter a state of suffering.

]]> By: Brandee https://lelosexy.com/blog/importance-trust-bdsm/#comment-21815 Sun, 29 Jul 2018 01:52:05 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=9621#comment-21815 My story is very complex. We are full BDSM, however he was diagnosed with epilepsy and now because of medical and how much he’s changed my trust is gone. He can no longer read my body and I’m a masochist that needs release from emotional and mental pain that’s not always sex. When I try he goes too hard too fast and stops thinking. I don’t trust him or that I would even safeword. I’ve let him beyond my hard limits to try to please him but it’s like I’m not there. He loves me very much and would never do anything to intentionally hurt me but we are at a breaking point. I don’t know how to learn to trust him again.

]]> By: Gunawan Tjahjadi https://lelosexy.com/blog/importance-trust-bdsm/#comment-5825 Wed, 28 Jun 2017 18:00:04 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=9621#comment-5825 How to fulfill my bdsm desire of sex in a very cultural state of living with full of spiritual icons?

]]> By: Katy Thorn https://lelosexy.com/blog/importance-trust-bdsm/#comment-5063 Tue, 05 May 2015 03:38:48 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=9621#comment-5063 In reply to SweetWomanDirtyMind (@sweetdirtywoman).

Thank you for the comments! I like to call those online doms ‘bulldoms’ because all they understand is blunt force. But every Dom has to start somewhere, right?

]]> By: SweetWomanDirtyMind (@sweetdirtywoman) https://lelosexy.com/blog/importance-trust-bdsm/#comment-5019 Mon, 30 Mar 2015 10:38:32 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=9621#comment-5019 Very insightful article that should be read by anyone whose education about D/s relationships comes from “50 Shades,” as well as by all of the 20-year-old “Domly Doms” on FetLife who think it’s as easy as ordering a self-identified sub online to drop to her knees & suck his cock.

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