Comments on: Mastering Male Masturbation https://lelosexy.com/blog/mastering-male-masturbation/ A Sexual Pleasure Blog by LELO Sun, 08 Mar 2026 00:46:33 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: AJ https://lelosexy.com/blog/mastering-male-masturbation/#comment-140449 Fri, 02 Oct 2020 16:07:02 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=12385#comment-140449 In reply to Mike.

Dude. I’m a woman. I watch porn. There’s tons of kinds out there. Some are in ways I might feel degrading, or dumb, or just not my cup of tea, but I certainly don’t kink shame. Just as easily I find woman on woman, POV, oral, anal, etc etc etc that excited me depending on my mood. If you think women don’t enjoy some of those scenarios, you might want to expand your horizons. I’ve certainly been in moods where I feel like taking on multiple partners. Does not mean I’m not going to enjoy it or that it would make me feel inferior in any way. I personally don’t enjoy being tied up, but I am definitely not a submissive person. I say, check yourself sparky. If all you watch is bdsm, look outside the 50 shades (which in my opinion is not good erotica) box. And if you think you’re going to tell a sub that they’re being degraded and not enjoying it, I say you better educate yourself. You seem to not understand a lot that’s out there in the world.

]]> By: Alan D. https://lelosexy.com/blog/mastering-male-masturbation/#comment-102532 Sat, 23 May 2020 00:48:40 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=12385#comment-102532 My favorite is the Lelo Soraya with the small vibrating arm against the frenulum and the large vibrating Portion against my shaft. OMG.

]]> By: Casey Smith https://lelosexy.com/blog/mastering-male-masturbation/#comment-48601 Tue, 23 Apr 2019 06:10:45 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=12385#comment-48601 Mike you are completely wrong you are obviously a hyper sensitive millennial hopefully your kids won’t wind up like you. I think you need to rub one out of your sandy vagina and leave the author of this article alone because what you hyper sensitive snowflakes don’t understand is that the author is trying to offer other solutions and give advice I think that just because your probably a closet rapist does not mean you can blame porn for your mistakes our parent should explain that being aggressive to women is wrong. But maybe your not a rapist maybe it is your child but that’s no reason to blame porn, maybe look into your own parenting. You opinionated pieces of crap make me sick.

]]> By: Howard https://lelosexy.com/blog/mastering-male-masturbation/#comment-22231 Sun, 05 Aug 2018 19:30:54 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=12385#comment-22231 I use a small blanket that I keep under my bed so it’ll stay cold. Then, I pull it out and hump it on my bed while I’m still in my shorts. It’s amazing, much better feeling than lube. But it’s probably hard to find a small blanket with that material that stays cold. Ive actually had that blanket since I was a baby, but now I only use it for the purpose of masturbation. It’s a red blanket that says “LXNX SERVICES”. It only works for me when it’s cold, though. Trust me, you need to try this.

]]> By: MasterB https://lelosexy.com/blog/mastering-male-masturbation/#comment-14155 Mon, 12 Mar 2018 02:43:16 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=12385#comment-14155 Some of my favorites are:
1) use the peel of a very ripe raw plantain (the fruit bigger than a banana that is fried) directly on your penis. A little messy but worth it!!! As much as you can, try to squeeze out the fruit instead of cutting the peel, so you have a nice “sleeve.”
2) place a nonlubricated condom (I like the “Joe Lube” or “Atlas” brands) over your penis and use corn starch or talc (and even a little baking soda) on the outside of the condom. Great for anyone, but especially older circumcised guys for whom too much direct stimulation is painful and for younger guys who cum to quickly.
3) If you have an extra sensitive penis, use item #2 above, AND put a lubricant or old cum inside the nonlubricated condom.
4) especially for younger guys, lie in the tub and let only a (gentle) shower spray stimulate the penis, hands off! If you can let only the shower spray take you to ejaculation/climax all the way through, you will have a very intense, prolonged experience.
5) order a silver bullet vibrator online (I like the double to use simultaneously anally or on my balls) and place/secure it touching the frenulum or (for more longevity) the top of penis either inside a condom or under the elastic band of a jock strap. Like the shower spray method, try to get ejaculation/climax without using the hands–extra intense

]]> By: Mike https://lelosexy.com/blog/mastering-male-masturbation/#comment-12809 Thu, 15 Feb 2018 06:44:24 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=12385#comment-12809 It is COMPLETELY WRONG to say this to men: “don’t judge yourself too harshly if you’re aroused by unusual visual stimulus.”

Most porn for men portrays women in humiliating situations where they are feeling pain and certainly never enjoying it!!! Lots of porn today is filled with aggression towards women, and to say to men and boys that it is OK for them to enjoy being aroused by a humiliated woman in pain… by aggressiveness towards women is only going to turn men into psychopaths…if they are not already!!!!

How can you say that “unusual visual stimulus” is good when you know that most of it is degrading to women!!! And you are a woman yourself saying this!! It’s ludicrous and rather disturbing to hear a woman say that!!

Your not a psychologist or sex therapist…that’s obvious! Maybe you should study psychology where you learn that the subconscious doesn’t know the difference, so for boys and men to enjoy this kind of porn is not good for them, for society, and even worse for women and a lot worse for girls to see this kind of porn..it’s all over the internet…it’s degrading, humiliating, depressing, and down right demoralizing for women and girls to have to live with the idea that men love to see women being horrendously hurt, physically and emotionally!!!

Men and boys using this kind of porn will become insensitive towards women, uncaring for women’s issues, not to mention more selfish, AND a lot more likely to become aggressive to women in real life!!! I wouldn’t be surprised if Trump and other sexual harassers grew up with this kind of porn!!!

I am a FATHER and I do not want my son to use this kind of porn and I feel awful at the thought of my daughters seeing that…it breaks my heart!! There are erotic movies and porn that are decent and respectful of women, that also include women’s pleasure–that is what you should be promoting….specially as a WOMAN that you are!!!!

C’MON KATY, you have written other good articles, but this makes me wonder how they allowed you to publish such a misleading article as this one!!!!!

]]> By: Bailey Henderson https://lelosexy.com/blog/mastering-male-masturbation/#comment-5692 Sun, 09 Apr 2017 15:49:51 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=12385#comment-5692 Okay that is all rlly good but what if your 14….your not going to walk into the super market and buy some lube

]]> By: Alu https://lelosexy.com/blog/mastering-male-masturbation/#comment-5561 Sun, 22 Jan 2017 01:39:28 +0000 https://lelosexy.com/blog/?p=12385#comment-5561 “Masturbation is having sex with someone you really love.”

Gotta give your waifus some love! Like that.

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