First dates can induce feelings of excitement, but it can also be harrowing and nerveracking. This is especially true if you’re dating with the intention of wanting a second date.  So, if you’ve had a successful first date and you’re getting ready to go on a second, yay you! How are you feeling? Nervous? Confused? Enthusiastic? All of these are valid emotions. Have you got the tools or tips to ace your second date though? Well, we’ve gathered advice from […]

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Yes, it can feel daunting for those who are in the process of dating in their 50’s and beyond. And if you’ve been out of the game for a while, it can be even more overwhelming, anxiety-inducing, and intimidating. But a lot has changed in the dating world.  Today, there are all kinds of ways to meet new people, albeit not so much in the old-fashioned kind of way, but in more tech-forward ways. Besides dating apps, there are TV […]

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Dragons, dark lords, and doomed romances are leaving the pages of books and becoming a powerful catalyst for people’s intimate lives. With steamy “romantasy” sagas climbing bestseller lists, new research* from LELO—coninciding with the World Book Day on April 23rd—reveals how fantasy literature is fundamentally reshaping modern relationships, role-play, and desires. The LELO ‘Fantasy Flames’ survey of over three thousand respondents from all over the world confirms the trend is blazing: Setting the Scene: A striking 31.13% of respondents have […]

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This article is written by a licensed psychotherapist. Walking away from an unhealthy relationship can feel like stepping into unfamiliar territory. You may crave closeness but notice your body tensing, your mind second-guessing, or your heart hesitating. The desire for connection is still there, yet your experiences have taught you to be wary of getting close to others. Rebuilding trust and intimacy after emotional harm isn’t about “fixing yourself” or rushing into the next relationship. It’s about relearning safety, rediscovering […]

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One of the most painful and confusing experiences in a relationship is wanting closeness with your partner and feeling met with distance instead. In these moments, it can be easy to assume something is wrong with the relationship, with them, or with yourself. Many people find themselves wondering, “Does my partner not care about being intimate with me?” “Are they no longer attracted to me?” or “Will it always be this way?” These fears don’t come from nowhere. When Intimacy […]

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There’s something so luxurious about gifting someone a LELO pleasure product.  After all, LELO has worked hard to bring you sex toys that are not only sleek, elegant, and high class, but also capable of all sorts of heightened pleasure, and producing firework-inducing orgasms.  So, if you’re looking for something special, sensual, and romantic to give a special woman in your life, LELO has something for every occasion.  From simple gestures for a girlfriend or wife, an anniversary or birthday […]

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Whether you’re flying solo this February or looking to turn up the heat with a partner, Valentine’s Day is the ultimate excuse to prioritize your own pleasure. We believe that self-care should feel as good as it looks, and there’s no better time to upgrade your bedside drawer than right now. From deep, rumbly waves to pinpoint precision, our most-loved icons are ready to sweep you off your feet. This season, love is in the air… and so is an […]

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Twenty-five percent of American couples have sex only one time per month — or less, according to new research. The new poll of 2,000 U.S. adults in a relationship or married found that keeping the spark alive can sometimes be a challenge, as 14% of those polled say their sex lives are “unsatisfying.”  However, according to the results, the average couple surveyed does the deed four times per month for 18.6 minutes each time — that adds up to 15 […]

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Hello there, gorgeous! Thinking about making this Christmas the most wonderful time of the year for yourself and your special someone? 😉 Forget the boring socks and sweaters—it’s time to put some real sizzle into those stockings. LELO is here to be your naughty little helper, guiding you to the gifts that are guaranteed to impress… and perhaps encourage a little undressing! Treat Yourself, Babe: The INA Wave 2 The holiday season is all about self-love, darling! Why wait for […]

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Seducing a man is about more than showing tits and ass. Seduction in many ways is a form of self-expression. What is it about you that makes you feel the most attractive? When you find a man attractive, this is what you put out into the universe. If he finds that part of you attractive too, then the two of you can partake in a playful, confident game. Endorphins rise, emotions heat up, and chemistry sizzles. Here’s how to seduce […]

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