What is fisting? Fisting is when the hand, or entire fist, is inserted in the vagina or the anus for sexual pleasure. There are two types of fisting, vaginal and anal, each creating a unique sensation of fullness and stretching.  Is fisting safe? Fisting is generally safe, but it must be done slowly, with lots of lube, clear communication, and a lot of respect for you and your partner’s body. Having said that, welcome! You’re here because you’re a newbie […]

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A ruined orgasm is a sexual phenomenon where the physical contractions of a climax occur, but the accompanying peak of intense, pleasurable sensation is abruptly cut off or muted. This typically happens when sexual stimulation is stopped, changed, or reversed at the exact millisecond the body reaches the point of no return. While it can happen by accident, like getting startled or losing your grip on a toy, it is also a highly intentional kink practice. For those wondering how […]

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A pleasure dom (also known as a ‘sensual dom’ or ‘pleasure top’) is a dominant partner who leads through pleasure, sensation, and attentive care rather than intensity and pain. This soft, sensual approach to domination creates a power dynamic centred on deep intimacy, trust, and mutual satisfaction. Unlike traditional ‘hard dom’ styles that often focus on strict control or physical challenge, the pleasure dom guides their submissive partner into surrender using teasing touch, sensory play, anticipation, and devoted attention. The […]

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Consensual non-consent, or CNC, is a form of sexual roleplay in which partners stimulate scenarios where consent appears absent. Still, in reality, all elements are negotiated and agreed upon in advance. The foundation of CNC is full trust, a mutual understanding of boundaries, and a clear “stop” system that overrides the roleplay at any moment. With CNC sex, consent is always real and ongoing.  To start, it’s important to know the essential terminology of CNC sex.  Primal Play is a […]

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Spanking for pleasure is a common kink most often used both during foreplay and sex. There are many perspectives and scientific reasons why erotic spanking are arousing.  Sexuality is a complex labyrinth with sometimes complex answers. Just because you were spanked in childhood, for example, it doesn’t mean you enjoy it as an adult. And the reverse is true; you could have a wonderful relationship with your parents and never come close to a spanking as a child, and still […]

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Many people put in careful time and effort to ensure they don’t get pregnant. But for some people, the risk of having a baby is a huge turn-on, and this fetish is more common than you’d think. Just scroll on the breeding fetish Reddit page if you’re in doubt! What is a Breeding Fetish? A breeding fetish is when someone finds themselves extremely attracted to the concept of either getting pregnant or getting another person pregnant. With this fetish, the […]

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BDSM, which stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism, is a lifestyle that includes a variety of sexual practices such as physical bondage, giving and receiving of pain, dominant and submissive roleplay, and/or other related activities.  And in this lifestyle, there are an array of BDSM toys that are used to enhance the experience.  From bondage kits, restraints, ball gags, blindfolds, and handcuffs, to rope, spreader bars, paddles, whips, and floggers, there are a number of […]

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For a long time, smoking was glamourized as something sexy. Think grainy boudoir images with pouty red lips puffing away on a cigarette. If that turns you on, you may have what’s called a “smoking fetish”, otherwise known as “capnolagnia”. While smoking has decreased in popularity in recent years thanks to health education, many people still find it incredibly arousing. This has led people to explore this arousal through watching smoking porn, reading smoking erotica, and even – smoking during […]

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Power play, which centers around consensual power exchange between a dominant and submissive partner, is at the heart of BDSM dynamics. Ultimately, a person surrenders control while the other takes it. But what are the best BDSM toys for power play, and how can toys, restraints, and sensory tools enhance D/s dynamics?  These devices can intensify this dynamic, reinforce the role, and heighten anticipation, ultimately increasing pleasure and deepening the connection between partners. In this guide, we’ll dive into the […]

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So you’re looking to try something new in the bedroom? Oftentimes, when people think of BDSM, they may believe that it’s intense and sometimes scary. But this really doesn’t have to be the case.  There are so many different styles and themes of BDSM, as well as intensity levels, that it can be enjoyed by anyone who has a taste for something different.  First, what does BDSM stand for? BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism. The D could […]

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